Create a self-hosted chat service with your own Matrix server

Matrix is an open standard for decentralized real-time communication. The specification is production-ready and bridges to tons of silo products like Slack, Gitter, Telegram, Discord, and even Facebook Messenger. This lets you use Matrix to link together disjoint communities in one place, or create an alternative communication method that works with, but is independent of, communication silos.

You can create your own self-hosted Matrix chat for as little as $3.50 USD per month on an AWS Lightsail instance. Your homeserver can federate with other Matrix servers, giving you a reliable and fault-tolerant means of communication.

Matrix is most widely installed via its Synapse homeserver implementation written in Python 3. Dendrite, its second-generation homeserver implementation written in Go, is currently released in beta. Dendrite will provide more memory efficiency and reliability out-of-the-box, making it an excellent choice for running on a virtual instance.

Here’s how to set up your own homeserver on AWS Lightsail with Dendrite. You can also contribute to Dendrite today.

Create a Lightsail instance

Spin up a new Lightsail instance on AWS with Debian as your operating system. It’s a good idea to create a new per-instance key for use with SSH. You can do this by with the SSH key pair manager on the instance creation page. Don’t forget to download your private key and .gitignore your secrets.

Click Create Instance. Wait for the status of your instance to change from Pending to Running, then click its name to see further information. You’ll need the Public IP address.

To enable people including yourself to connect to the instance, go to the Networking tab and add a firewall rule for HTTPS. This will open 443 so you can connect over IPv4. You can also do this for IPv6.

Connect DNS

Give your instance a catchier address by buying a domain at Namecheap

and setting up DNS records.

  1. On your domain management page in the Nameservers section, choose Namecheap BasicDNS.

  2. On the Advanced DNS tab, click Add New Record.

Add an A Record to your Lightsail Public IP. You can use a subdomain if you want one, for example,

  • Type: A Record

  • Host: matrix

  • Value:

This points to your Lightsail instance.

Set up your Matrix homeserver

Change permissions on the private key you downloaded:

chmod 600 <path/to/key> 

Then SSH to your Public IP:

ssh -i <path/to/key> admin@<public ip> 

Welcome to your instance! You can make it more interesting by downloading some packages you’ll need for Dendrite. It’s a good idea ot use apt for this, but first you’ll want to make sure you’re getting the latest stuff.

Change your sources list in order to get the newest version of Go:

sudo vim /etc/apt/sources.list 

Delete everything except these two lines:

deb buster main
deb-src buster main 

Then replace the distributions:

:%s/buster main/testing main contrib non-free/g 

Run sudo apt dist-upgrade. If you’re asked about modified configuration files, choose the option to “keep the local version currently installed.”

Once the upgrade is finished, restart your instance with sudo shutdown -r now.

Go make some coffee, then SSH back in. Get the packages you’ll need with:

sudo apt update
sudo apt upgrade
sudo apt install -y git golang nginx python3-certbot-nginx 

You’re ready to get Dendrite.

Get Dendrite

Clone Dendrite and follow the README instructions to get started. You’ll need to choose whether you want your Matrix instance to be federating. For simplicity, here’s how to set up a non-federating deployment to start:

git clone
cd dendrite

# Generate a Matrix signing key for federation (required)
./bin/generate-keys --private-key matrix_key.pem

# Generate a self-signed certificate (optional, but a valid TLS certificate is normally
# needed for Matrix federation/clients to work properly!)
./bin/generate-keys --tls-cert server.crt --tls-key server.key

# Copy and modify the config file - you'll need to set a server name and paths to the keys
# at the very least, along with setting up the database connection strings.
cp dendrite-config.yaml dendrite.yaml

Configure Dendrite

Modify the configuration file you just copied:

sudo vim dendrite.yaml 

At minimum, set:

  • server name to your shiny new domain name, e.g.

  • disable_federation to true or false

  • registration_disabled to true or false

You might like to read the Dendrite FAQ.

Configure nginx

Get the required packages if you didn’t already install them above:

sudo apt install nginx python3-certbot-nginx 

Create your site’s configuration file under sites-available with:

cd /etc/nginx/sites-available
ln -s /etc/nginx/sites-available/<sitename> /etc/nginx/sites-enabled/<sitename>
sudo cp default <sitename>

Edit your site configuration. Delete the root and index lines if you don’t need them, and input your server name.

Your location block should look like:

location / {
    proxy_pass https://localhost:8448;

Remove the default with: sudo rm /etc/nginx/sites-enabled/default.

Create self-signed certificates

You can use Certbot to generate self-signed certificates with Let’s Encrypt.

sudo certbot --nginx -d <> 

If you don’t want to give an email, add the --register-unsafely-without-email flag.

Test your configuration and restart nginx with:

sudo nginx -t
sudo systemctl restart nginx 

Then start up your Matrix server.

# Build and run the server:
./bin/dendrite-monolith-server --tls-cert server.crt --tls-key server.key --config dendrite.yaml

Your Matrix server is up and running at your web address! If you disabled registration in your configuration, you may need to create a user. You can do this by running the included dendrite/bin/createuser.

You can log on to your new homeserver with any Matrix client, or Matrix-capable applications like Pidgin with the Matrix plugin.

Other troubleshooting

Log files

If you get an error such as:

... [] setupFileHook
  Couldn't create directory /var/log/dendrite: "mkdir /var/log/dendrite: permission denied"

You’ll need to create a spot for your log files. Avoid the bad practice of running stuff with sudo whenever you can. Instead, create the necessary file with the right permissions:

sudo mkdir /var/log/dendrite
sudo chown admin:admin /var/log/dendrite

# Build and run the server:
./bin/dendrite-monolith-server --tls-cert server.crt --tls-key server.key --config dendrite.yaml

Unable to decrypt

If you see: Unable to decrypt: The sender's device has not sent us the keys for this message. you may need to verify a user (sometimes yourself).

  1. In your client, open the user’s profile. Click the lock icon if there is one, or otherwise look for a way to verify them.

  2. You may be asked to see if some emojis presented to both users match if you’re using certain clients like Element.

  3. You can then re-request encryption keys for any sent messages.

Set up your own Matrix server today

I hope you found this introduction to setting up your own Matrix homeserver to be helpful! If you have anything to add, feel free to reply via Webmention.